Thursday, March 12, 2009

Final Thoughts on Jason, Melissa, Molly, and RS.

Well, its been a wild ride the past three weeks ! I didn't want to make a final statement on this season's show until I saw at least part of the Jason/Molly apology tour, and now I think I've seen all I care to see. So, just a brief overview of things...

First of all, I think its time for Jason and Molly to go back to their private lives and sort out what they really want from their relationship. If they do indeed love each other, the only way to find out how deep that love truly is would be to get past the bizarre circumstances of the Bachelor and TV in general.

While Jason deserves much of the public criticism for his recent actions, I believe Molly has been treated very unfairly by the media, and by a few bloggers as well. If Molly truly loves Jason, I say leave her alone, as its none of our business now. Nor was it the business of certain bloggers who spread rumors about Molly, you know - guys like RS who claimed that Molly and Jason were meeting on weekends while Jason and Melissa were still engaged. That rumor was false -and never should have been published to begin with. Furthermore, it was nothing more than a cheap shot at a person who had no way to defend herself. Shame on you RealitySteve, you owe Molly an apology !

That leads to Melissa - I thought something was strange about her "TV tour" this past week as well. First of all, she goes on the ATR show and crys like a woman scorned, while allowing Jason to humiliate and dump her on national TV. Then a few days later on the Ellen show, Melissa says the breakup with Jason was mutual and that they hadn't even been talking... HUH ? If the breakup was mutual, then why such anger from Melissa during the ATR show ? And why allow Jason to dump her on TV if they were broken up already ? Like everything else with this season's show, something just doesn't add up here....And now Melissa is once again on another reality TV show....an ABC show nonetheless !! If it were me in that situation, I sure as hell wouldn't have gone on TV acting like the victim if the relationship had already been mutually ended - if anything, I would've dumped Jason on TV in retribution...but thats me.

Finally, I'm glad this whole mess is just about over...from Jason's bizarre behavior....to ABC's immoral and unethical drive for ratings....and to RS's self flatuating conspiracies about the "scripting" of the show. The "reality" is this - the only thing RS got right(along with Laura Saltman and numerous tabloids) was the actual events that took place on the broadcast of the Finale, and the ATR show. But by doing so, RS spoiled the ending for millions of loyal viewers due to his selfish and self righteous motivations. Add injury to insult, RS tarnished the character of Molly, and he has yet to offer any kind of apology. Perhaps RealitySteve will sell her one of his upcoming merchandising items at a discount. LOL

As for me, it was never my intention to be a full time blogger, but with the tremendous response we've received on this blog in such a short period of time, I'm thinking of keeping it open. If anyone would like to run it, please let me know soon, as its time for a vacation....I hear New Zealand is nice this time of year......

Peace


Aletheia

16 Comments:

At 6:54 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Melissa told Ellen she was angry because Jason lied to her about whether or not it had anything to do with Molly, and she specifically asked him if she would be blindsided by anything and he said no. Ellen was taped over a month after they broke up, so she had probably gotten over it by then. I think she handled it all exactly how she should have and there's nothing wrong with her being on a show like Dancing With the Stars, which is nothing like The Bachelor.

 
At 7:14 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

What anonymous above me said... Melissa said that on Ellen and I believe that is exactly why she was so angry. And with good reason, he lied to her about having been in contact with Molly.

Are you following all of this or only what you want to read/see? Or do you just enjoy continually bashing RS?

 
At 7:22 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jason - is an ass and will always be. He cheated on Melissa with Molly (emotionally if not phycially too) agin once a cheater always a cheater.
Molly - Melissa told us she knew Jason contacted Molly at least once. Jason told Mel that he called to "check on her". Whoever believes that it was only once is fooling themselves. Molly pretending to look surprised when he told her he wanted her back. They couldn't look at each other as they both knew they were liars. Molly took Jason back so fast on that show and MADE OUT with him 5 minutes later. She knew and I completely believe she had been seeing him all along. They deserve each other! I just wonder which will find someone else first. Remember Jason as in-love with Mel too......
MELISSA - GOOD FOR HER TO BOUNCE BACK!!! I hope she now knows how sweet and beatiful she really is. I hope something great comes to her, she deserves more than a good time on DWTS. I love you MEL and am happy to see you again :)
Reality Steve - Sounds like someone is really jealous of you! I for one agree with most everything he says and even if I didn't I respect the fact that we are all free to have and share our opinions.
Aletheia - I would have enjoyed reading your opinions too if they were not always about RS.

 
At 7:55 PM , Blogger Aletheia said...

There's a reason I've written about RS's blog. And its due to the fact that I believe some of his comments were reckless and irresponsible towards Jason and Molly. And that his goal of "exposing" ABC was less about exposing them as it was about "enriching" his own name and blog. Isn't it funny how RS is critical of ABC for commercialization of the process - yet now that RS has received a few more readers, he's planning on commercializing his own blog.

 
At 8:05 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

RS didn't spoil the ending. No one was forced to read his blog. If someone did read it, he/she chose to do so. As for getting the "only thing RS got right(along with Laura Saltman and numerous tabloids) was the actual events that took place on the broadcast of the Finale, and the ATR show."...isn't that quite a bit?? I'm not sticking up for RS...I just think you have a lot of anger toward someone who was only sharing what he knew with the public who chose to look at it.

 
At 11:21 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Aletheia, do you still believe that Jason does not propose to Melissa at the FRC because of problems with her parents, but that he proposes later and ends up with her?? I can't find your earlier post anymore but that is the "scoop" you said you had.

 
At 9:00 AM , Blogger Karen said...

Regarding RS..Didn't you post some "spoilers" right before RS was supposed to? Didn't you continue to post "spoilers" for the next several weeks; at one point even saying you and your sources supposedly doing interviews, etc? Isn't that a little like the pot calling the kettle black?

 
At 9:21 AM , OpenID rachelmchll said...

You know Alethia, I have read your blog (it’s like watching a train wreck, you can’t just not look at it) and never really commented on it but I can't just not say anything at this point. I have no idea how you can come on here and preach to all of your 15 avid readers the things you do. You are the epitome of hypocrisy and contradictions and it's quite funny and entertaining to see you make such a fool of yourself. You should be embarrassed that you keep changing your opinions and statements about this whole bachelor mess. Not to mention your persistent, almost obsessive, freakish vendetta to seek vengeance against RS because he has more of a fan base than you. You are so beyond jealous and it is dripping all over this blog. It's really very pathetic. I suggest you move on with your life. You will never have the publicity and the amount of fans that RS does and you are certainly gaining nothing more than negativity and enemies by continuously being so unbelievably annoying.

 
At 9:36 AM , Blogger Stacy said...

Ok, I just have to say this. I don't know why you keep feeling the need to bash RS. It just makes you look childish and petty. As for him "spoiling the ending", YOU are the one who keeps shouting from the rooftops that YOU posted the ending a whole 3 HOURS before he did, therefore YOU ruined the ending, not him. And as for that other stuff, RS has been clear from the beginning about what he knew for fact, and what was purely his speculation. Seriously, give it a rest!

 
At 7:11 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Aletheia has the right to her opinion, just as you and RS have the right to bash Jason and Molly.

 
At 7:37 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree. You need to read a whole story or listen to a whole interview. Melissa did not say she was shocked about the breakup, she was blindsided by the fact it had something to do with Molly. She had repeatedly asked Jason if it had something to do with her and he kept saying no. And RS said he THOUGHT they had contact. He said he DID NOT have proof about the visiting but had heard that. I think the more important point was that he thought they had contact whether it be email, phone, whatever. And from Melissa's interview on Ellen, RS was right. Also, how will you continue a blog that does not report the truth as you say you want to do, it just repeats what other blogs say and bashes RS. I put this on here once and you deleted it, but if I were RS I would seriously consider getting a restraining order because you have some weird obsession with him and it is really creepy!

 
At 8:45 AM , Blogger reality television said...

No one made anyone go on steve's blog and read the ending. I know plenty of people that knew that this stuff was out there but didn't go and read it. It's a choise. I am glad he told us the truth so now we know the type of people Molly and Jason really are.

And um Melissa was upset because Jason kept lying to her..not so much about breaking up on TV. Do you only hear what you want to hear?

Also, DWTS isn't a "reality" show..it's a competition, based on something she's obviously grown up doing. It's such an amazing opportunity..why not take it?

 
At 10:06 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like Aletheia and agree with her
- Adolph Hitler

 
At 10:57 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I want to fuck Melissa between the boobies. Then I'll do her doggy style.... :)

 
At 9:28 AM , Blogger JLintheOC said...

Aletheia ~ I'm getting tired of the attitude of your blogs at this point. I'm not sure you even know what you are talking about anymore. You don't have your info right, and if we need to come here and remind you how things went with Melissa and Jason, then we should just start our own blogs. Get your facts straight...and stop bashing RS. You sound like a jealous ex-girlfriend.

 
At 2:57 PM , Blogger martin.carolyn said...

If you don't like what Aletheia is writing, you don't have to read it. I personally agree with everything she's written. People get dumped, rejected, voted off, and eliminated from all sorts of reality shows, game shows, talent shows, and survival shows every month. I don't see where Melissa's experience was any more humiliating than any of the others. I also think that the Bachelor and most of the other reality shows and competition shows are manipulated and edited to sway YOUR thinking. The audience loved Melissa because ABC wanted that. Molly and Jason are on their "apology tour" because that's what ABC has arranged for them. None of this has happened by accident. ABC did not have to run the ATFR the way it was. They could have just brought Jason on and had him explain that he and Melissa had parted. ABC doesn't put anything on the air that they don't want on the air. The fault in all of this is squarely on ABC and NO ONE ELSE.

 

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